A Nigerian man [/b]has shared a perplexing encounter involving a lady who stayed overnight at his place for the first time, leaving him in a state of confusion and self-doubt.
He turned to social media to recount the situation, seeking advice and insights from relationship experts and the online community.
The narrative unfolded when the man, whose identity remains undisclosed, welcomed the lady to his home for the first time the previous evening.
As the hours passed, the time reached a late 10:30 pm, raising concerns about her safety if she were to travel back home at that hour.
In a surprising move, the lady chose to spend the night due to the lateness of the hour and the potential risks of commuting so late at night.
What happened next left the man baffled. As he described in his social media post, the lady, after deciding to stay over, undressed completely before getting into bed with him.
Despite sharing a bed through the night, the man claims there was no physical intimacy or contact between them.
The next morning, the lady reportedly showered, got dressed, and left his place. To ensure her safety, he reached out to confirm her safe arrival home.
Receiving confirmation, he then asked when she would visit again.
However, her response left him puzzled. She allegedly questioned, “The one I visited, what did you do?”
In his words:
“Where did I go wrong? She visited my house for the first time last night. We shared our past experiences.
Due to heavy rain until 10:30 pm, she couldn't leave, so she slept in my room, wearing only her underwear.
We slept without any physical contact. In the morning, she bathed, dressed, and left.
An hour later, I called to check on her safety, and she said she was fine. When I asked when she would visit again, she replied, ‘Visit you again? The one I visited, what did you do?’ She hung up after saying that. I'm confused by her statement. Did I do something wrong by not touching her? What would you do if a similar situation happened to you?”
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